okay, dont read this (ha like thats going to deter you?) but yeah this is the first time ive really sat down and thought, what do i look for in someone else?
well, obviously negating soul mates and stuff like that (my soul mate is going to be a chav i just know it ¬_¬) this seems to be my general formula. (that noone so far has matched up to damn my taste in men, in practice!) i guess my views are just like communism.
in theory they have to be passionate, i mean really passionate about things im passionate about or atleast similar things, so have a strong oppinion on music and/or art 'politics' ethics, the meaning of life etc. basicly understanding that for me one of the most attractive things someone can do is disagree with me and then provide a decent argument to back themselves up. they have to know (or atleast be able to bullshit enough so it seems like it) what they are talking about. im not picky on the looks side at all if the first point is met, however an afinity to black does come in handy. i'd like it if they shared my basic ideals though (like individualism is really really important, as is free speach and a hatred for certain rules and a disregard for social expectations etc (look at me being pretentious). i find 'geeks' REALLY attractive i have no idea why!? *weeps* im not sure if its just a bi-product of the kind of people i tend to talk to but all of my exs have been computer/gaming freaks. uhm, yeah thats kinda it, i want to have a lot of respect for them (which was a problem with Will, its harsh, but true) and its probably not healthy for me but if they scare me its also great. huray for the adrenylin rush.
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